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The Birth of Services for the Mentally Retarded in Connecticut
An overview by a Parent


My daughter Mary Wood was born March 29, 1960 in Trumbull Connecticut. At the time of our daughter's birth and before we had seen her, our doctor told us she was a Mongoloid baby and we should place her some where have another baby and go on with our lives.

We did in fact place her some where but only for a short time until we decided we were going to bring her home and raise her. When Mary was five years old we enrolled her in the special education classes in our local school. Mary worked her way through special education classes until she graduated at age 21. During her time in school she participated in the Special Olympics each year. There were no other programs or services available for the mentally retarded at that time. There was no Department of Mental Retardation in Connecticut neither.

We did learn during those years that Mary had Down Syndrome, which indicated she was mentally retarded and the title of Mongoloid was soon dropped in referring to these children. We suddenly came to realize that except for special education classes there was nothing else for Mary and more than that when she left school she would have no place to go except home with us.

One of the very earliest legislative acts of the Connecticut legislature was the Special act # 506 "Creating a commission to select and purchase a site and to build thereon another State Hospital and Training School for the feeble-minded". The leadership in this innovative plan was provided by Governor Wilbur Cross who sought to establish alternatives to the state programs long in effect at the aging "barracks type' structures at the Mansfield depot facility. In 1940 Southbury Training School opened on a 1200-acre campus. In 1965 there were more than 2,000 in residence.

In 1943 Mrs. Evelyn Kennedy's first experience in hearing the term "Mental Retardation" was when her doctor told her you have a mentally retarded son. Their lives were now centered on their son and they soon found out there was no place to turn for help, not even books in the library. When her son Brian was 5 she went to the Superintendent of Schools in Bridgeport only to be told there were no programs for children like hers. Special Classes were for children with IQ's over 50 there was no obligations for children like her son Brian.

On a snowy February night in 1951 12 families came together at Mrs. Kennedy's house to see what they could do for their children. They pleaded with the Board of Appropriations in Bridgeport to help them to keep their children home and out of that came funds for two classes to start at Columbus School in Bridgeport. These trainable classes were the first of its kind in the New England States. They named their association "The Parents and Friends of the Mentally Retarded" and held meeting twice a month.

Other communities wanted help in starting their parent groups so they traveled around the state in helping other groups get started. Their next need was a center for a nursery program. The Bridgeport Brass Good Neighbor Fund purchased a lot and with the money they had in their treasury designed and built a building with help from local contractors. It than took 18 months to complete it.

Their programs soon expanded to their full capacity and it was time once again to move. The Mayor of Bridgeport gave them 3 acres of land on Virginia Ave. And Washington D.C. gave them a federal grant for $100,000. They also raised $375,000 to cover the cost of the new building. They realized all to soon, after the building opened, that they could not continue the expense, the demand was so intense for services, and it was overwhelming.

Their only alternative was to have the Department of Mental Retardation take the building over and provide the services desperately needed. Evelyn Kennedy made a trip to Hartford to insist that Bridgeport was past due in having a Regional Center. They than turned the building over to the DMR for $50,000 the amount owed on it. That was the beginning of the Bridgeport Regional Center. In 1951 they decided to take the older children and open another facility. They opened in one building, moved later to another one and finally to a factory building on Garden Street in Bridgeport that was donated to them. They also received a donation of about 1 million dollars to renovate the building and the Kennedy Center opened in the early 1970's.

During this period in time several Associations for Retarded Citizens organizations were being formed all across the state. Founded in 1951, the HARC (Greater Hartford Association for Retarded Citizens, Inc.) Was one of them. HARC is a grass roots organization that provides advocacy and supportive services to individuals with mental retardation and their families. Throughout their 48 year history, their families worked together to advocate for opportunities for their sons and daughters. HARC's services include family support, supported/competitive employment, and adult Day programs residential, birth-to-three services, behavioral health, recreation, elderly services and whatever else it took to keep the family together.

In 1959 The Office of Mental Retardation was established in the State Department of Health. In 1975 the Department of Mental Retardation was established headed by a Commissioner directly responsible to the governor.

In the year of 1958 several Valley parents, having difficulties with their retarded children, contacted George Hegyi, who at that time was one of the Directors of the Kennedy Center in Bridgeport. George arranged to drive the children to the Kennedy Center but after a while the Kennedy Center could not take anymore children. After much discussion it was decided to form an organization for the valley children.

In February of 1959 a meeting was held to discuss the problem of mental retardation. More than a 100 people attended and the Valley Association for Retarded Children and Adults, which was incorporated April 21, 1959, was born. The Derby Methodist Church offered the use of a room in their Fellowship Hall for the day-care and pre-School class. It has been said that George Hegyi put ads in the local newspapers asking any parents with a handicap or retarded child to call him, he would than invite them to bring their child to his classes. Not long after that an evening class for the teenagers was instituted. The service of a Speech Therapist was acquired for the eligible retarded. Soon after that the Derby-Shelton Community Center gave permission for them to use the facilities of the Center.

VARCA also offered two scholarships, to a training program at Southbury Training School for public school teachers, for students who intended to specialize in teaching the retarded. VARCA's president George Hegyi said the first goal of the organization was educating the community to the abilities and needs of the retarded. During this time parents were conducting various fund raising drives. This money, plus donations from various local manufactures, organizations and personal donations, keep the programs operating.

When the State Legislature passed the mandatory education law for the retarded, grants were allocated to such organizations as VARCA. One third of the cost of educating the retarded child was granted. VARCA raised the other two thirds from public functions and solicitations.

The first workshop opened in 1962 and moved several times to bigger sites because of its growing need to accommodate more people.

In 1978 VARCA moved to its present site in Derby. In January 1977 the City of Derby was allotted $1,095,000 under the Federal Public Works Employment Act to finance construction of an addition to the George Hegyi Training Center operated by VARCA. That grant is believed to be the largest awarded to a human-services project in Connecticut under the $3.9-billion Federal anti-recession program. Today VARCA serves over 100 clients of the Department of Mental Retardation with day programs, activities and operates 3 group homes. My daughter Mary works in VARCA and lives in one of their group homes.

In the 1976 The Lower Fairfield County Regional Center opened up. The Ella Grasso Regional Center opened in 1981 in Stratford. The Waterbury Regional Center and several other ones across the state also opened up.
{March 1, 1984} during this period in time started the formation of a new state association for the benefit and advancement of all mentally retarded persons. The name of that association was FORConn (Friends of the Retarded Citizens of Connecticut) and it was formed to help put an end to the dissatisfaction and frustration that had resulted from the polarization of mental retardation issues in Connecticut - a polarization that had confused legislators and had stymied the development of appropriate services for the mentally retarded of this state. All of the board members of FORConn was and still are made up of parents of mentally retarded children.

In the belief that the treatment of retardation is not an exact science and cannot be resolved by any unilateral approach or philosophy, however well meaning, FORConn supported the development of community programs for the mentally retarded, particularly those that assist families in keeping their retarded member at home. But they also supported the continued use and maintenance of congregate service facilities, such as the Training Schools and Regional Centers, for those who would most benefit from them. They believed that the salvation of the Mental Retardation program in Connecticut lies in the continued development of a wide range of programs and services, in order to attack effectively the problems of the retarded at ever age level and severity of handicap.

The needs of retarded citizens of this state must be addressed with broad-based programs and services that take into consideration the varied needs of all the retarded. Every retarded person possesses a unique individually, with likes and dislikes, and various personality discrepancies, just as all Other persons do; and this uniqueness exists regardless of the degree of retardation.

Given these basic premises, it becomes obvious that no single, narrowly focused philosophy can provide meaningful support and aid to all retarded persons. Generalized philosophies, such as "de-institutionalization," "Normalization," "least restrictive setting," etc. tend to create confusion because they are interpreted in any number of ways and thus prove to be too indefinite for common agreement. Each of these philosophies has been heralded at various times as the ultimate in salvation for the retarded. And yet any success that have been achieved have been limited to those retarded persons who were able to cope with the specific opportunities offered. Many of the more severely retarded have other handicaps (physical and emotional) that limit their capacity to make use of the opportunities offered in living "in the community". Indeed, a significant number of these people may best be served by living in a protected environment with specialized services close by.

FORConn's Mission statement states: There is a wide range of disabilities among Connecticut Citizens with Mental Retardation. Many of them also have complex health problems and serious behavior problems. We advocate for a full range of choices, which include both congregate and inclusive community options in all areas: residential settings, work settings, training and support settings, health services and recreational activities.

We oppose any limitation of the rights of individuals with Mental Retardation, or their guardians and families acting on their behalf to choose from a full array of services and supports. This includes being able to live work and play in protective segregated settings such as Community Work Centers, Regional Centers and Southbury Training School. We oppose the elimination of any program or residential option based on an ideological viewpoint. Changes should occur only if the DMR client involved and/or their guardian/parent involved want to move to other programs or settings. We believe the wishes of the individuals who receive the services and their families must be the driving force in the planning and delivery of these services. We believe that all parents and guardians of Mentally Retarded Citizens of Connecticut should work together for the common good of all and speak with one voice to our State Legislators and Officials.

I guess the message I am trying to get to the parents of the mentally retarded is that it was Parents and only the Parents that started the ball rolling for services for their children. The thing to remember now is that those parents, and that includes me too, are getting to old to carry that ball and unless the younger parents decide to pick up the ball and carry on for us, what we fought for years ago for our children well not be around for the parents and their mentally retarded children in the future.
For more information on any of these subjects please contact me.


Robert Wood
Past President FORConn (www.forconn.org)
35 Robinwood Road
Trumbull, CT 06611-4923
(203) 375-1796
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